Rhetoric of Gender:Pathos

For many years people believe that women and men have different ways of speaking , and for this particular blog I will talk about the way they use their emotions when they want to talk about a particular subject. Take in consideration that no particular background or culture would be used for this comparison only the way they choose to speak.
For many years now women are seeing as more delicate and fragile than men, but let's put away the physical appearances. When women talk about a certain thing they tend to actually show "delicate and fragile" in example :
"oh dear!" or "darn" while men use stronger ones like "dammit" or "Oh shit!"
(lackoff)
these words are used to show a certain emotion when one has to dscrib their emotions, woman show more tranquility while man show and aggressive and more violent reaction. Women are often seen as more imtellegent than men not only because its been scientifically proven but because it also has to do alot with the way they use pathos when talking to people, they dont only show that they are aware of what they are saying but they are more passive in the words they have chosen to say. It might becaus men are seying as "stronger" but women when trying to show their emotions to strangers persay use specialized vocabulary, where men dont do that they try to be more of speaking what they think. Women use pathos more in conversations than men in general.