Man cheat with words and actions

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/07/080715114145.htm

Men and Women have different ways of speaking, but as you can see they both have different ways of taking things in. It seems as if anything that a men can tell to a girl while being in a relationship might encourage the other girl that he might be interested, and the girl friend might suggest as the boyfriend cheating.
Since when is it wrong to be friendly to a person, maybe when its the opposite sex, and maybe its not the word choice but how its being delivered. Men have long have had a history of being should I say sweet talkers, but why is it that they have long had this reputation. Maybe it was Don Juan and his poetic words and way of conveying women that they were truly and honestly beautiful.
So I ask myself when a woman talks to a man, the man doesnt see it as a flirtation right away but why si that women have deeper feelings when it comes to words? DO we really fit into the stereotype that we are such sweet things and gentle, that we let this get to our heads and let men be able to manipulate us? or is that we are just wak when it comes to words.These might be questions that I myself cant answer but does anyone have a thought in this or maybe some personal stories? I would love to get myself out of doubt.


With doubt,
Jennifer