Sunday, March 15, 2009

Man cheat with words and actions

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/07/080715114145.htm

Men and Women have different ways of speaking, but as you can see they both have different ways of taking things in. It seems as if anything that a men can tell to a girl while being in a relationship might encourage the other girl that he might be interested, and the girl friend might suggest as the boyfriend cheating.
Since when is it wrong to be friendly to a person, maybe when its the opposite sex, and maybe its not the word choice but how its being delivered. Men have long have had a history of being should I say sweet talkers, but why is it that they have long had this reputation. Maybe it was Don Juan and his poetic words and way of conveying women that they were truly and honestly beautiful.
So I ask myself when a woman talks to a man, the man doesnt see it as a flirtation right away but why si that women have deeper feelings when it comes to words? DO we really fit into the stereotype that we are such sweet things and gentle, that we let this get to our heads and let men be able to manipulate us? or is that we are just wak when it comes to words.These might be questions that I myself cant answer but does anyone have a thought in this or maybe some personal stories? I would love to get myself out of doubt.


With doubt,
Jennifer

7 comments:

M.M. said...

Dear Jennifer,
I do agree with you that men do have that reputation, but also there are woman who as well have the same reputation. Yes in a way woman are venerable and let words, and actions tell them they are basically in a relationship. I think that people who actually ‘sweet talk’ they now hoe to use there tone of us, an also body language, which then may confuse there partner, or simply give them an idea that isn’t there. We mostly use our tone of voice, but I think the bigger part of is our body language, because that’s the thing that gives our words the extra push that it needs. About the whole talking to the opposite sex, I think is just self-esteem issues, or just jealousy. I agree with you that you simply just talk with a person (no matter what there gender is), and it’s just a conversation.

Chicken Little said...

Hey there,

You couldn't have said it better. Men have a bad reputation for cheating both verbally and with actions. I myself tend to do such things and even though it can be manipulated I choose not to. Having said that, I think that when we talk to the opposite sex words do not flow like if we were talking to our friends.

That is all what I can say and great job.

Leslie C. said...

Dear Jen,
Sometimes men that are in a relationships don't take their relationship seriously which can be one of the reasons they have the reputation they have. When it comes to women some fall into the words that they here men say towards them and I don't know why is that. It gets me thinking about if it is manipulation like you stated or sometimes women are to blind to see what is really infront of them. Great topic you chose, you should of written more about your thoughts towards it.

Jennifer Rosales said...

Jenn,
Well to start you had a great and interstring blog but, you should double check your grammar in order to delibarate a "perfect" blog. Never the less it was a very good blog.
Although, i do agree with almost everything you presented toward men. Your right men do tend to have a imprisingly high reputation. However, i also believe that women do too. Unlike many there are alot of women who are the opposite of gentle or kind.
However, we are all different and have different perspectives toward other genders.

steviesaur1105 said...

Potentially, women and men are very alike. There have been differences discovered about both genders, but overall, were all human beings. Our sex puts a fair line between the two genders, but it's comedic to see both genders accuse and defend that their gender is "better." It seems pretty fair to say that men are the majority figures of cheaters, but ike carmen has stated, women have that same reputation. We can not judge each other by the actions that one does because we may not do the same wrong, but still do wrong. That means that no matter how big or small the "sin", it doesn't matter because we have all done something wrong and therefore can not judge others. Basically, sadning to say, but we are all hypocrites when it comes to judgment. so we can hate each gender for doing wrong things, but the both genders can do the same wrong so we can not put a label on which the worst or best.

edwin garcia said...

JenN,
Do you really want a personal story? Well, I won't story tell but I'll tell you what happened.
Yes sometimes girls are seen as the more "vulnerable" sex, but there are girls who find it more difficult to believe such "sweet talk" Maybe because of experience or because of I don't know what. There are men who don't take relationships seriously, and it earns all that reputation. But women need to see that they do not need a man in this world. The women who say stuff like oh, he messed me up and screwed me over need to learn that there is someone out there who will really love them for who they are and repsect them, because men are like roses, you got to watch out for the pricks.

Hernan_1992 said...

Jennifer

This is a very interesting topic you have spun up. I have hard that men always find there slick ways of manipulating women to do actions because of their words. I believe that this is a steryotype because women can do the same thing. Words are used by both men and women. Words can be manipulated to be seen as sweet talk and can prove to be an excellent method of persuasion and manipulation.