It has taken me a while to write a blog or get this thing to work but now here it is and hopefully its posted up.
I have noticed that women and men have very different ways of socializing, at least thats what it seems. When I see how my friends talk to each other it kind of amuses me because you can tell without looking when a guy is talking to a girl because they are much more nicer with tme not becuase they are a gentle man at least thats what I think kbut maybe its because when women talk its always the same tone towards every one but when men talk it's different. Men in my opinion have two different voices 1. the one they use with men 2. the one that they use with women. The first one is much like themselves they dont have to act differently where as in with women men are always nicer and should always think about what they say.
It was kind of funny how i figured this out and Im sure that if you pay attetion you toko will see it. My guy friend was mad and he was jsut very moody, and when my guy friend asked what was wrong he said nothing really rudely , later when my girl friend asked what was wrong he said nothing but very nicely, I dont know if this has to do with the theory that girls are sweeter but its really creepy what kind of word choice guys choose to talk to girls not onloy what kind of word choice but how they use it. Its very intresting.
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Wow. Interesting title.
Why do you think some guys chose to speak differently with girls?
I know a few guys who are rude to both guys and girls, who simply say and do what they want, not caring about being a gentlman.
Do you think that there's anyway for a guy to talk the same way with another guy like he does with a girl? Guys (generalizing) can be very macho around each other, but with girls they warm up. How much of an impact do you believe this has on society?
Dear Jen,
It's interesting to know and think about that men do use two different tones of voices and I wonder why that could be. I think it could be because when guys are around other guys they aren't worried about being their real self and when it comes to girls some may think about what the girl would say or do if they are a certain way. If you find any information on this hopefully you talk about it for one of your next blog's.
Dear Jenn,
I agree that men change there tone of voice when talking to a woman, I never really put much thought, until you pointed it out. I also considered it that the guy is being a gentleman, or is being respectful. I think that men do have to think what they say to a woman because they don’t know how a girl would react to what they say. Yes, I have also experienced when guys use a different tone, with woman, but also is that bad or good? Are they showing themselves to us, or just putting up an appearance?
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