http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/07/080715114145.htm
Men and Women have different ways of speaking, but as you can see they both have different ways of taking things in. It seems as if anything that a men can tell to a girl while being in a relationship might encourage the other girl that he might be interested, and the girl friend might suggest as the boyfriend cheating.
Since when is it wrong to be friendly to a person, maybe when its the opposite sex, and maybe its not the word choice but how its being delivered. Men have long have had a history of being should I say sweet talkers, but why is it that they have long had this reputation. Maybe it was Don Juan and his poetic words and way of conveying women that they were truly and honestly beautiful.
So I ask myself when a woman talks to a man, the man doesnt see it as a flirtation right away but why si that women have deeper feelings when it comes to words? DO we really fit into the stereotype that we are such sweet things and gentle, that we let this get to our heads and let men be able to manipulate us? or is that we are just wak when it comes to words.These might be questions that I myself cant answer but does anyone have a thought in this or maybe some personal stories? I would love to get myself out of doubt.
With doubt,
Jennifer
Sunday, March 15, 2009
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Two men in one
It has taken me a while to write a blog or get this thing to work but now here it is and hopefully its posted up.
I have noticed that women and men have very different ways of socializing, at least thats what it seems. When I see how my friends talk to each other it kind of amuses me because you can tell without looking when a guy is talking to a girl because they are much more nicer with tme not becuase they are a gentle man at least thats what I think kbut maybe its because when women talk its always the same tone towards every one but when men talk it's different. Men in my opinion have two different voices 1. the one they use with men 2. the one that they use with women. The first one is much like themselves they dont have to act differently where as in with women men are always nicer and should always think about what they say.
It was kind of funny how i figured this out and Im sure that if you pay attetion you toko will see it. My guy friend was mad and he was jsut very moody, and when my guy friend asked what was wrong he said nothing really rudely , later when my girl friend asked what was wrong he said nothing but very nicely, I dont know if this has to do with the theory that girls are sweeter but its really creepy what kind of word choice guys choose to talk to girls not onloy what kind of word choice but how they use it. Its very intresting.
I have noticed that women and men have very different ways of socializing, at least thats what it seems. When I see how my friends talk to each other it kind of amuses me because you can tell without looking when a guy is talking to a girl because they are much more nicer with tme not becuase they are a gentle man at least thats what I think kbut maybe its because when women talk its always the same tone towards every one but when men talk it's different. Men in my opinion have two different voices 1. the one they use with men 2. the one that they use with women. The first one is much like themselves they dont have to act differently where as in with women men are always nicer and should always think about what they say.
It was kind of funny how i figured this out and Im sure that if you pay attetion you toko will see it. My guy friend was mad and he was jsut very moody, and when my guy friend asked what was wrong he said nothing really rudely , later when my girl friend asked what was wrong he said nothing but very nicely, I dont know if this has to do with the theory that girls are sweeter but its really creepy what kind of word choice guys choose to talk to girls not onloy what kind of word choice but how they use it. Its very intresting.
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